In our lives, as we grow, we gradually lose contact with pple and friends we used to care for.. Be it old school friends, ex-colleagues or ex-lovers.. and before we know it, we all move on in our separate lives.. though we hav powerful social media and tools which suppose to make keepin in touch easier, Ironically, the more convenient it is, the more it shows the effort that one is willing to put in to maintain the relationship. And more often than not, those once great friendships soon became fond memories of the past.. Ending relationships, without proper closure, probably thinking nothing reali has ended..
And there will bound to be some pple who strike more than one cord in your heart, that you wish so much to relive those moments.. But sometimes, when things become the past, they stay in the past.. Closure or not, we can only juz accept that things are not gg to change or be like it used to be anymore.
So is closure reali important? Some pple can't move on without proper closure. Some pple go all out to seek a closure.. So as to give themselves an answer..
Or maybe, seeking for a closure is juz a disguise to one's true desire for whatever that had changed to be unchanged and for things to be like how it used to be again. Only to realize that whatever had happened, is here to stay and all that is left to do, is to accept and heal wounds, if any.
And So memories, will stay as memories and be kept somewhere close but deep in the heart.
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